Look, guys. I get it. Talking to cute girls is hard, especially when there are potentially hundreds of other hopefuls vying for her limited attention. Short of tipping big or taking your favorite lady private for a show she’ll never forget, ensuring you’re remembered as a loyal fan is a true feat of social navigation. To be frank, making a positive first impression on a cam girl can set the tone for all future interactions with her, which can be intimidating, but not impossible! Just…try not to be these guys.

Pointers for Chatting with Girls on Webcam

First impressions can set the tone for all future interactions with a camgirl. Here are some pointers and tips for chatting with girls on webcam sites.

10. “Do you have a bf?”

A camgirl’s relationship status is not your business. She’s not trying to date you, bro.

Instead, try: “Your boyfriend must be a lucky guy!”

9. “Where do you live?”

“Where are you from?” is a healthy and common conversation starter. It’s generic, friendly, and can open up some great topics like landmarks, weather, and travel. “Where do you live?” is not, and instead sounds like the eerie prelude to a matinee slasher film.

Instead, try: (see above)

Cam Girls Do Not Disclose Locations For Security Reasons

8. “Wanna meet up?”

This one’s a HUGE no-no for obvious reasons, and can not only get you blocked immediately from a camgirl’s room, but can even put your favorite model at risk. Cam sites generally discourage members from exchanging contact information with performers for safety and legal purposes, so don’t be that guy.

Instead, try: Avoiding the topic altogether. It’s just not worth it.

7. “I just wanna chill and chat…for free”

This is cam code for “I’m broke and I want other members in this room to tip so I can see what I want for free.” Next!

Instead, try: “I’m sorry I can’t play with you today, but I thought I’d stop in and just say ‘Hi.'”

6. “Do you have someone else there who can watch?”

Ah, yes. I forgot that my equally hot girlfriend was hiding under the bed for this very moment. Let me wake her up so she can see how cool your boner looks.

Instead. try: Getting a second look from other cam models!

Cam Girls Are Not Movies with Free Previews

5. “Let me see a preview.”

After months of research, writing and re-writing a thoughtful and provocative bio, and spending days upon days taking tantalizingly flattering pictures and videos for my free public gallery, this is the last thing I want to hear.

Instead, try: Tipping. Hm, funny how that works.

4. “Do your parents/S.O. know about this?”

Uh, do yours?

Instead, try: Not bringing up someone’s parents in a sexual setting. It’s just weird.

3. “(Insert marriage proposal here)”

It’s been a great five minutes. I could do this for the rest of my life. Yes, yes, a thousand times yes, BigDick69!

Instead, try: “You’re totally wife material! I hope to meet a girl like you someday!”

2. Negative remarks on her appearance

Do I even need to elaborate?

Instead, try: Genuinely complimenting her on the features you love!

Or: Try using tags and categories to find a model that suits your preferences better.

1. Unsolicited dirty talk

This is the unwanted dick pic of chatroom interactions.

Instead, try: Asking for consent. You know, like you should with dick pics.

Being a camgirl comes with a ton of obstacles and challenges most members will never be fully aware of, and yet, many put aside their day-to-day difficulties solely for your entertainment. It costs absolutely nothing to be kind, and even a little respect and gratitude goes a long way. Treat your favorite performers well and they’ll soon be lighting up the second you pop into their chatroom!

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